He is not wrong btw, even thought you change the context a little bit, your people wanted to pve more than pvp, the grass is greener on the other side. By raising he means that you grew up under wickedsick, without us you can't say if you would or if it wouldn't have been ten times harder. Let's not forget you are the one that said your ppl cried all the time when they had to pve instead of pvp