Nah.. You just think you're good while played on a bugged-classic server. Wit dyes are pretty good in gladiator vs mages. You always talk about 1v1 which is not lineage2. Go back to your cave.
For PVE Choose the +12 str with PL or BW set, for pvp take a doom set with shield for blocking magic skills (Which mages are doing 1/3 MC, sometimes 100% instead of 1/10 rate) and you can +8 str -3 con -4 dex, +4 wit -int or if you don't like this +3 con -3 dex