What Reddish said. Just like irl, people often want someone not necessairily to follow, but someone to lead the action. I quickly max'ed WIT for highest res possible, something that along other things pushed everyone to fr/inv me for whenever they died, which I didn't see as a chore, since it also offered me insta-invite to xp parties every time I logged.
If anything, I notice that supports who otherwise have it hard, end up being the links of networking.